I have come across many articles about celebs marriages and their later breakups. It’s understandable considering all the pressures in their individual lives they have and merging them together with someone who is also a known celebrity would be pretty difficult. You would need a balanced universe between the two and they would need to work extra hard to keep the public out of their own affairs, which is hard to do when there are cameras on them every where they go.
It’s bad enough having issues in a relationship, than the whole world knowing about it and making judgments on stories they read about in an article. I have a lot of respect for celebrities that have to put up with a lot of criticisms and not just for their creations, but for their everyday lives. It comes with the territory of being a celebrity. Their personal lives become a movie to the fans and they are entertaining us with their falls and rises?
Celebrity’s jump in and out of marriages as they do clothing.
We would to, if the cameras were on us everyday off camera people like you and I. Well technically, I am an on camera person considering I create and am a born performer like my father. Only he didn’t go for that route. Some of my other family members did however, one being an actor.
I just read on yahoo because that has become my daily newspaper for some reason. I wont even touch my daily newspaper that comes to my house everyday, I hate that crap. I don’t like reading about deaths and killings etc. That’s all papers seem to write about, like it’s entertaining. That shit aint cool.
Okay so I read that TOm cruise who is a major hotty is splitting up with Kate Homes. I am sure they have their own reasons for their split up and mostly it just comes down to, simply growing a part and just not working together the way they used to. When a marriage or relationship fails it’s very gradual and happens over time, depending on what occurs to the final breakup, but there is always a build up. Couples letting things build and build and never finding or seeking to find a solution that will better their relationship. Believe me, I know what I’m talking about there.
I feel sad when a couple splits up, it means that they both have decided to give up, if their still in love it’s more sad, because they should be able to find the strength to work together to better their relationship and make it stronger, but usually if you have to really struggle to try, it just wasn’t worth it. I am a strong believer that if it works it falls into place and you have something solid to start off with. If you don’t have that solid start at the beginning of the relationship, you either get weaker or you get stronger together. It all depends how much you want it and are passionate for another. Your love should inspire you and should drive you and should motivate you, but not to become great on your own but great as a union together as well.
I look up to Will Smith and his wife, they are a family of stars that have that solid strength I believe. Very dedicated and motivated and very in love and putting everything they have into each other, not because they have to, but because they simply are. Yes, I am aware I know nothing about these people, but I can see it when I look at them, I just know.
It’s kind of sad when I read about celebs on tabloids because I know what they must be feeling when they see some of the topics about them being distributed across the globe and knowing there are so many people judging them and to feel that pressure of that has to be exhausting. They have to develop a superpower to block off that world from entering their own little force field of, “I am great and I love myself and know who I am and what I stand for!”
It doesn’t matter what people think, yes it hurts sometimes, but deep down it’s what you think of yourself that really matters in the end. We create and shine from the inside out and the only shine we got is how we feel about ourselves.
“I feel great” I’m still building my confidence that got shattered through he many years of men etc telling me I wasn’t good enough etc, “I know I am beautiful inside and I know I am a good person.”
See… hehe “My SHINE IS ON!”
Now get your shine on!